Mrs. cac, for what it's worth, I feel exactly the same admiration for you in your journey to reclaim your own sexuality that I just posted to karen about. LD, HD, chocolate, strawberry, let's call the whole thing off ....
You are on the side of the angels in my book.
If it helps at all, no matter how opinionated I no doubt sound, I have to fight self-censorship too, even on an anonymous message board. My urge toward self-presentation is that ingrained. Posting here has been very good for me, and I'm sure the same applies to you .... just hit Submit and we'll all be idiots together.
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert