Hi poohbear and welcome. Sorry you are here. My H's OW was a friend of mine (but not close, just went in the same playgroup circles) and I will never speak to her again. Even though she owes me no loyality (my H owes me that!), she is not worthy of my friendship. I try to imagine it being my best friend and I can't imagine keeping up a friendship with her. I am so sorry.
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And yes he is tired of hearing about it but I am tired if thinking about it,wondering about it.
Is he tired of giving you details about the A, or tired of talking about it in general? I kind of agree with him. Though its taken me a LONG time to see this, the actual A isn't the problem, its what what in your marriage that led up to the A. That being said, if he truly wants to help you heal from this, he needs to answer all your questions and have patience.
