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Hey lady! I'm so sorry. I feel ya on needing the space though. I know it would be hard but some days I just can't bear to see H come and go like he does.

I personally say good for you for showing your emotions. Your H SHOULD already know how much he's hurt you, but maybe your crying was good for him to see.

I ALSO unfortunately understand your feeling about the HOT mom comment. My H has done the exact same thing. Just on Monday D3 mentioned a little boy at school. H said, yeah, I think I saw his mom, she's hot. He's also actually asked me if the mom putting on the party D3 went to was HOT? WFT??? are they thinking? Seriously!!

I am so sorry that this is happening right now. I also am not ready for divorce but think space would make me feel more at ease right now.

I'm sure everyone else will come on with their wonderful advice. And hey, just a few more days until you see Hope again too right? That will be good for you right now.

Hugs to you WONDERFUL Lady! Wish I could give you one in person.

SueS


ME: 42, H: 42, D6
Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs.
Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009
Status: Working on it day by day