Maybe I missed my calling, I could write novels instead of eating smoke.
Thanks for the advice about what language to use when talking with her. Not much of an emotional giant, still pretty rattled by the whole thing.
But I am listening to advicem, reading and trying to become educated on what is going on.. Your advice of filling my time, all of my time, is great - I will work on that..
Too bad we couldn't be on here talking about fun stuff (like how bad the Giants are going to beat up the patriots)and not this crap.