That sounds just like me, crying while trying to do something and telling myself how unfair it is. I am going to try (with S11's help) to put away the xmas stuff in the attic. Baby steps. I guess most H's procrastinate. My favorite story used to be when we were first married and had our apt. It took something like 2 yrs to get up the apt curtains in the bedroom. And once in our home he had a tantrum and ripped-yes ripped-the storm door off the back of the house. That night I bought a new one. It sat soo long he lost the parts. Finally got up something like 8 yrs later. Literally, no exageration. Things that are undone drive me crazy, especially little ones. I understand that our sliding glass doors fell apart with age and now need vice grips to keep them closed. I do not have the $ to replace them so I live with it. But things I can do I like to do.
Anyone see "life after people" on history channel? Buildings break down pretty quickly when nature is involved and no one maintains them!
LOVED everyone's hugs, keep 'em coming! Feeling Helen Reddy more, I am woman hear me roar!
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08
