I'm not going to have the affair under any circumstance because I believe it is wrong, but I do feel so damn lonely sometimes that I am craving the touch and intimacy of another.
As for the ring, I play with mine constantly as well and I really am torn to whether or not I should leave it on.
The W has hers off and I still dutifully wear mine. I'm really torn here, but I appreciate everything this community has to offer all of us when we are struggling.
Keep going strong and I hope to hear from you soon.