Originally Posted By: karen1
Dom,

H is a rebel to his core. He is way to stubborn and too sure of himself in his biblical knowledge to respond to being whacked upside the head with the "word". Personal bible study?? Yep, he does that and he did that through formal education too. This whole thing would go like me trying to argue with him about what is wrong with one of our cars - ridiculous - he knows much more about cars than I do even though I do know a little. He knows much more about theology than I. Period.


Karen;
I'm not suggesting that you "argue" with him.
Why wont you just ask him his opinion of those bible passages?
That's not "arguing". You're not even being negative about him. You're just asking him what his biblical training tells him about it.

You dont have anything to lose, and you stand to gain a heck of a lot.

On a side note.. its really nice to hear that he sounds to be a little more concerned about your state of mind recently.
As you kind of hint, though; I dont think it will lead to more sex either.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle