jersting still working on it

[jersting]

Just to give a quick update, my WAW is now reconsidering her moving back in again. It all stems from all of the debt she made before she moved back. She is mad at me for not paying her bills from before. the thing is, we don't have the money to pay all of her bills and the bills of the household with out doing it with barrowed money. I refuse to dip into the borrowed money to pay off her bills unless I know that i won't have to try and come up with divorce money in the future. It would be one thing if it was just me that I had to take care of in the future, but I have to take care of our kids in the future no matter what happens between her and I. If I just pay her out of debt again and she decides to get a divorce later, I will be on skid row and my kids won't have anything either because she is so financialy unstable. She has proved to me numurous times that she can not mannage money so there is no way I will let her blow all of the kids money as well as ours. She has already went through in the last year all of our savings and then some. the only way to get us out of all of this is for me to refinance everything we own to keep from loosing it all.