Indeed, LS, I think you should think seriously about what Lil said.
Cac, I hear ya, but I belive one of her earlier posts disclosed that her husband is working massive hours and off doing his own fun stuff a lot on the weekends. Not a problem in itself, of course. But if he's not lovin' the amount of sex he's getting ... and given that they are both actively trying improve things ... it might be smart (let alone loving) to, you know, BE AROUND when she might be less tired and more up for it?
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
