Many of us have tried the "back off" thing when our LD wives felt "pressured." In my experience (and every other person's experience I've read about), it doesn't work, because the LD spouse will either come up with some new "tasks" that make them tired, or some other reason why they can't ML, or -- as my wife did -- they say "even tho you didn't say or DO anything, I still FEEL pressure."
