H is severely depressed. He came home at 5 last night so we could talk. Talked for a couple of hours...it was going to be about our R...but veered off to how bad he has it. He thinks everyone is out to F$%^ him over....no matter how hard he works at something it doesn't turn out...if he died nobody but me, the kids and his parents would miss him....there's not point in going on and doing anything....he's on a treadmill of work and failure...what's the point of living.... etc....
He did bring up some valuable points....like...how can he make anyone else happy if he's not happy with himself.... and maybe he's just being selfish..... He thinks he is going crazy.
Sometimes I get so wrapped up in my feelings and how hurt I am that I don't remember to consider that H is going through H$%^ too! He's just a shell of who he used to be. I am truly worried about him and his mental well-being. I'm praying for him because he says it doesn't do any good so he's quit asking God to help him....I'm sad today...I'm worried about whether or not he'll be able to make it through this.
Any advice anyone? No matter how I try to tell him that things are not as bad as they seem or that things will be better...he doesn't believe me....
BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally
