I went back and reread a lot of your old posts. I am so happy that you are in the place you are!
It's funny because while my H and I were still living together, I was in your H's position, but my H was hiding porn sites, Craig's List personals, and IM conversations with OW. I sympathize with it making him curious/suspicious. It's probably better if you don't flip over and just let him see what you are doing, especially if you are posting on other people's threads and not journaling on your own.
It seems like the computer stuff is a continuing issue. I know you are busy during the day and need to do stuff in the evenings, but maybe underneath his complaining he is really saying I don't like that you are on the computer instead of doing something with me. He's just saying it in a unclear way perhaps?
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2