All right. Guess I need to just suck it up and get her out of my mind again. If she wants to talk, I'll ask her if she's willing to end it with OM and agree to no-contact. If not, there's nothing to talk about.

In the meantime, I'm thinking of boxing up her stuff this weekend. Would make me feel better not looking at it. It's an obvious clue to her state of mind that she's left all her stuff in the house and still hasn't moved from her aunt's into an apartment, even though we discussed it over 2 months ago.

I'm starting to feel like I need to protect myself from the train wreck that her life is turning into. Don't know how to balance that with being open to working on M, but I guess I'll figure it out when the time comes.

So this is why the divorce rate is so high ...

lodo


Divorced: 10/26/08