Lil to Mrs. Cac Also, do you feel like you post and no one responds specifically to your posts? That happens sometimes. I often feel like my posts bring the conversation to a dead stop.
I often feel the same way. Sometimes I don't reply to your or someone else’s post, because it looks like to me, that I reply too often to that individual’s post or post a "but" or "me too" reply.

NONE of your posts has EVER struck me as stupid.
Mrs., Cac, I see some good things in your posts that can only/mostly come from someone that was LD (relative term) and it helps me to understand the LD's POV and BB's POV some.

Like HD said, doing something to improve the M makes you a member of the HD’er club. Not doing anything but proving that no/little sex is normal is depressing.

Concerning my situation, for me the sensitive thing is like I have to walk on eggshells so BB's world is in an order she likes. I still don't have a complete understanding of the sensitive thing, but see where you are coming from and that helps me a little. That is another issue.

Lou