Mrs cac, the next time you write something and have the impulse to erase it, don't. Hit "submit" instead. Really.
NONE of your posts has EVER struck me as stupid. The voice inside your head that says they are stupid is mistaken. Don't believe those thoughts.
This is a good laboratory to experiment with putting yourself out there at absolutely NO RISK. What can possibly happen to you? Even if someone thinks your ideas are crazy or gets their feelings hurt or whatever-- so what? We're all grownups. We will all get over ourselves.
The designations HD and LD certainly aren't very precise. I've been both. Right now I have no interest at all in sex. If you don't agree with those terms, don't use them or make up your own. This is a forum to play with your identity, your ideas, your opinions, testing them out on others, observing your reactions and just generally playing.
You absolutely belong here. You are a peer. You are the equal of anyone and everyone here.
Do not listen to the voices in your head that say otherwise.
Posting here and expressing yourself seems to have called up a lot of questions and conflicts within you. THIS IS GOOD. This is something for you to explore, inquire into, and not avoid.
I don't know if anyone has made any assumptions about how things are going in the cac household, good, bad, or otherwise. We certainly wish y'all well, but understand that daily life has its bumps. Do you feel like you have misled us into thinking things are fine? Not so.
Also, do you feel like you post and no one responds specifically to your posts? That happens sometimes. I often feel like my posts bring the conversation to a dead stop.
Explore these feelings that are coming up. YOU BELONG HERE. YOU CANNOT BE LABELED. We LOVE you! Okay??
