he had a hard time understanding why I think or feel the way I do. He just wants it to all be over... with no setbacks. ========================= Men move on faster, they don't retain memories like we do. He's living in the present, and you have misgivings he's prob thinking "but I haven't done anything bad today (or this past days/weeks)" whereas you are feeling uneasy based on what happened a long time ago (and I don't blame you.)
We always talked about this in C, H would claim he just didnt' see why xyz was bothering me, it just didn't make sense to him.
Hope you are keeping busy like Red, and glad that distance for a while helps you, hugs)))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.