I have to go to yoga in a minute, but I just wanted to say i was nodding all the way through reading your post. I will reply tomorrow when I have more time.
About your MIL & BIL - i am really sorry to hear your distressing news. The positive is that they can operate. I lost my close friend in November, she had a brain tumour and lung cancer. It was the lung cancer that killed her. She took drugs that shrunk the brain tumour. There is always hope. But i'm sorry for the pain it will cause to your family.
I wish you inner peace and calm.
((((25yrsmlc))))
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P/A confirmed 5/03/08
03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage
T: 13 M: 8 D:20 & 17 from Previous M S: 8 & 4 BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY S: 13/10/07
