Thanks Jenny I will definitely pick up that book (and ignore the D word too,lol). I appreciate everyone's advice. I was seriously having a meltdown lastnight and was so worried about S10. I just snuggled all night with him(which C said I need to start getting him in his own room a least a couple nights a week). S10 has been in my bed since H left-he said he's scared and I feel bad. My H says I baby them too much but I know they are hurting.
Me 36 H 35 S 13 & 10 M 15 yrs- 2gether 17yr Bombs 7/06, 6/07 ILYBNILWY 7/07 OW 7/07 Left 9/07
