Thanks w8ting-I know the anger is not good for any of us and it doesn't seem to matter to H anyway, so there is no purpose except to make metter worse. I like the idea of laying in baed and trying to talk to him but he will just give one word answers and I don't want to push. We do co-parent pretty good except family meetings have been lacking so maybe I should try to have the a couple times a month. Thanks for the advice:) It is very hard to DB when kids are involved.
Me 36 H 35 S 13 & 10 M 15 yrs- 2gether 17yr Bombs 7/06, 6/07 ILYBNILWY 7/07 OW 7/07 Left 9/07