And because I still associate with "LD," I cringe sometimes at some of the stuff here aimed at the clueless LD women. I know it's not directed at me personally, but I guess I feel a certain connection or kinship with other LD women, even the ones who have their heads so far in the sand that they can't see the light of day. I do feel for them, I feel bad for them, I wish they could see what I can see. I wish they knew how much they are losing or stand to lose. I empathize with them too.