on the creepy guy, I would almost think someone HAD to have talked to him, or he thought he was being "found out". that is very strange. did anyone else know how you felt? maybe they sent him a mesg.
my whole take on your limbo is... every sitch is different. If your H has really been in MLC, that can take 2 years (supposedly) My sitch happened rather fast, but I was in limbo for several months. I don't think anything is wrong with it, if your able to be patient. I feel that your sitch is just slowly getting closer and closer to your goal. and it's all about H. after him coming back home to soon, we obviously can see that he is going to take a long time to work on.
I don't see why you should give up on your patience. I guess you need to look at the progress that has happened in the last 6 months. And what length of time do you think is too long to be on the same level? 2 weeks? 2 months? I definitely think 2 weeks is too short. 2 months, well, if things aren't getting worse, and they aren't getting better either, then it might be time for a change or new 180s. But I think you really need to look at how things have been, how your H has grown in the R- albeit slowly, but he has, and how much patience you have.
on your H's pissy mood. we all have those. either he had a bad day, or else he's getting slightly annoyed being towards the end of your list. ??? I have no idea, because he usually seems to react really well when you have all these GALing plans....but maybe, just maybe he's wanting more attention?
just a thought.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
