everyone pretty much agrees around here that it is not a good idea to let them read because although there are lots of good things in DR that could encourage them they would also be wise to the techniques that are there for you to use in saving your marriage and it could backfire. Everyone flamed me for letting my W get a hold of my copy, although I haven't seen any negatives from her having it yet. It would be great if there were two different copies one for the spouse doing the most work or all the work in saving the marriage(containing the seven steps) and a copy that simply has all the interesting info you spoke of to leave "lying around" for your spouse to pick up. Like someone told me you wouldn't want to share your play book with the other football team. Good luck
Last edited by Diehard; 01/30/0806:53 PM.
Me 38 WAW 29 D 4 Married 9 Together 11 Bomb June 07 Separated Jan 08 Reconciled May 08 awesome, happy, and blessed
