P.S. I have a book called "when he leaves" by Kari West. About when husbands leave wives, sometimes for OW. Some religious tones in it. Written by 2 women who lived it. One H was a minister of all things!!!
If anyone is interested, it wasn't much good to me, different sitch.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08