H is adamant that his mistakes will get in the way. I think he's actually speaking more for himself than for me.
Hrnmm.
When my wife told me this I politely told her to go F herself. Because she was making assumptions about my ability to forgive her based on her inability to forgive people. That I was emotionally stronger than I ever imagined possible, and I was upset with her determining a future of failing based on her flaw perceptions of me. I told her that if our marriage ended, it was her choice but to never end it because she didn't think I could handle it.
His MLC isn't over.
A new strategy to push you away. Seems to be working. Is it?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK