And I respectfully disagree that "this is not a DB'ing situation."
It absolutely is!!! Yeah, it's not like last time, but what worked last time won't work now. Detaching and working on yourself IS DB'ing, just a diferent flavor.
You're right Drew. However, it's a LRT situation only. Being 'nice' and 'validating' is out the window. Time to move on with my life.