Yes Dom. My husband loves God and the church. He rebels against the church but not against God as he understands him. Does that help.
I'm not trying to fix anyone BUT myself so H doesn't matter. He hasn't mattered for a year. He chose that and I backed him up. Why start now? I need to participate in my R in a sexual way - FOR ME. His reaction??? Interesting but mostly immaterial. We may still not have sex. It isn't about intercourse. It is about being me.