Thanks for checking in - I've been journaling on my regular thread: "just want to make it better". It went about as I expected. He said we should D for my sake. I said I didn't agree and he left to do more thinking. I feel pretty discouraged. . .
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now