OM, MLC and the hits keep coming........Pt 7

[SueS]

Hope....
You have got to be kidding..... he left you????
H (Love Dr)

I have to say that these A's are NOT about looks. That's for sure. It's about our S's unhappiness with themselves. In some cases we have S's that get so unhappy with themselves that they think they're not worthy of us. I am NOT by any means trying to put myself up on a pedestal (I'm human and make mistakes too), but it just seems like in so many cases here our S's go for someone as unhappy as they are and less attractive than their current spouse. Look at Hope who is beautiful, Mark & Joie (also very attractive) where we've seen what the OP looks like.....etc. I've met the OW in my sitch and no, I don't think she's attractive. She's not hideous, but she's got a bulbus nose and just not attractive to me. But, I'm not the one that chose her.......H is. H chose a less attractive person who who is as "woe is me and miserable" in her marriage as he thinks he is.