I havent said anything about this, but I was wondering if the was an optimum time to ask my W to stop having so much contact with the OM. I guess it is not soon. Is it when she makes a commitment to having a go at our marriage? Is it after that? Just wondered as I was thinking about it.

Cheers
Steve

Me 27
W 30
M 2yrs/ T 5yrs
Expecting our first child Sept 08
warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08
I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08
Living together.