OT thanks - I see what you're saying now. Hmmm. Will have to think on that more. My first reaction is that you're right (of course).. but WHY? I think it's fear.. I think I am confusing the way things are currently with the way I believe I'd now be/act/treat H if I felt more secure in the M.

Definitely need to mull that over more - thanks as always for the good food for thought.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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