... make a final decision on D =================== what's the rush? you can just decide on being separated for the time being, dont' make life altering decisions right now (D), trust me, you are not ready for that and you might regret it.
I am gona cool things down with OW for a while ============================== So ow does know you are still M with 4 kids?, what a gem you've found. I'm even tempted to say you are her rebound R, that since she's D now she is looking for a "kindred" soul. It is very very deceiving of you towards ow to not let her know you do want your M to work and that you love your W, because, if ow has any soul/morals she'd leave you alone if she knew this. As long as you keep ow orbiting around you your M you won't have much chance.
Find a good councelor today and make an appt., I see lots of hope for your M.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
