Sometimes I'm just not sure that this board can support HD folk who need to vent and LD folk who are finding their way.

mrs. cac4,

I understand where you are coming from on this, but I actually think this is the most important thing about this board. Let's face it, if most of us were good at being open and honestly confronting the issues with our spouse who is the yin to our D yang, we wouldn't be here. But by having both perspectives here, we are able to learn more about what the other person is really feeling and thinking. This part is invaluable to me and I hope that it doesn't become a board of all one or the other. If I wanted to just listen to the frustrated HD side of things, I have certain buddies who I could call, but that doesn't help me in the same way.

PF

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"