Here is just one perspective of a covenant marriage.

Again, I am not debating second or subsequent marriages on this thread. If it applies to you, you'll have to figure it out for yourself. I'm sorry but I don't know those answers. I only know that I don't believe if a man (or woman) leaves his/her spouse and then ends up marrying the om/ow, it will then be a blessed union. Not without repentence. But that is my opinion.