I agree with minkerman. I tell my sister, who is having a rough time too, tell him the way you feel, then give him time to think and consider what you said. I would not make this a long conversation nor expect him to respond then. Perhaps make a time to talk about things later. And as minkerman said, if my WAW would have done this for me I would have moved mountains. Sometimes us men are just clueless and never know what is on their wives mind...Heck I thought everything was going well and boom....so, tell him and then give him time to think about it.
