I think, my dear, you are angry with yourself for continuing to live in a way you don't like and you are taking it out on H.
Hmmm I had not thought about that - thanks OT.
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You are the one choosing to live in vagueness and limbo. You are the one who is sleeping with a man who you do not treat like your husband in word or action.
The first part I get... the second part, what do you mean in terms of not treating him like my husband?
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I'm not really sure, though, how living in an M that doesn't seem to be working for either of you with no communication/progress is going to lead to an M that either of you wants to stay in...
This I definitely agree with. I guess where I'm stuck is how to make any progress other than what we've been doing... where things are getting better but it's certainly painfully slow.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
