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[cat03]

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LN, I know this is not a huge deal, almost like crying about spilled milk, but as my H and I were talking, he lamented how "she was almost gone until she showed up that summer". It is killing me, thinking that we were doing well and perhaps w/time we'd get better. It is true though, that he agreed that all the while he was back he didnt' feel right all the time, true that didn't really have intimacy, a good connection, that I was still the one who wanted to ML instead of him, that he coasted along the M.
No, things were not really ok. He should've been able to say no to her, all the blame doesnt' fall on her, he should've had the spine to tell her "im trying to piece my M together" but, because as far as she knew he was D he felt he had to go along and lie to cover up his earlier lie. Even up to know he finds it impossible to tell the truth.
Grrrr! sorry, this thought is gnawing on my brain since he's said it. End of statement :P