I hesitate to suggest but have you done or tried some of the obvious already? - talk to your mortgage holder and make interest only payments - refinance for a lower rate and/or extend your payments - W gets a part time job that accomodates her massage schedules - do your kids contribute? after school jobs? - cut the extras out of your budget, don't be afraid to say no - consolidation loan - use MasterCard to pay Visa - use coupons to shop - shop at the used clothes store - have a rummage sale/sell on ebay
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.