just talked to one of my buddies / mentor who told me in no uncertain terms to stop feeling sorry for myself and move on / out. His take on the sitch is as long as I am at home, W has someone to depend on and will not feel the full impact of a potentla breakup. Basically she has it all right now. Furthermore he suggested I be proactive and call the realtor myself if W is stalling. He feels that i need to give her the impression that I am moving on....
I guess he has not read the books......can't say I disagree with what he is saying 100%.
