Nice site Karen! I got "relax" which is exactly what I need to do right now.
I am the LD one. We've had all kinds of troubles in our 5 year R. I recently read High-Conflict Relationship and we're working through the exercises. It starts off talking about how this is a partnership and there has to be give and take and working together.
I often get caught up in the negative. The postive is more important. There are many things I love about my H despite the pressure I feel about our bad sex life.
