Originally Posted By: catfan
Do not underestimate how difficult it is to go dark. It will be the hardest thing you have ever done or attempted.

So be prepared.
Aaarghh!

So, I go dark... and I'm being so good at being upbeat, 'getting a life' by going out a few times, refreshed portions of my wardrobe, kept it short and sweet when talking, etc... All the things you're supposed to do.

And then? The bomb drops that she is inviting her "friend" over to meet the kids tonight at a little birthday party she's throwing for herself. And she tells me that she's relieved that I'm moving "onward"... (That's her take on my recent 'upbeat-ness')

AAArrgghhhh!

Last edited by CrossedFingers; 01/30/08 04:03 PM.
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