Yep I have looked at that question - that is why I haven't had sex in almost a year and am not sure just when or how I will restart my sex life.
My more recent question is "What does this have to do with him anyway??" It all started when I picked up a piece of erotic fiction that was just my flavor and I have been enjoying hot and botheredness for a couple of days while reading it. H would probably be shocked by it or maybe he wouldn't - who knows???? I just know that living a sexless, colorless existence for a year isn't my cup of tea. Erotic fiction, fabulous new full length burgundy silk jewel tone dress for a black tie event in March (1/2 price too) and a red leather briefcase for work - all in the space of a few weeks. I'm done with wall-flowering in my life or my marriage. He can want me or not - if he can show me that he does maybe I will grace him with my sexual presence. I accept that he has every right not to be interested but I also have every right to be interested - in sex in general or with him. If he's smart he'll figure out that he would rather it be with him instead of with someone else.
