In no way was I meaning to attack you, and I'm not "profiling" you as you suggest. I'm really just glad to see that your making strides in that area, and W is responding in a positive light.
You can only make that decision for you, it is your disease and not W's, so she can't carry the burden and it won't ever be her burden. Glad to see that you are doing it for you. Maybe give her the Wifes chapter from the Big Book to read.
