She's gone...I'm devastated, but hopeful

[minkerman]

No, we haven't done any counseling at this point...she says her issue is not one that counseling would help (being alone with her thoughts to get clarity). She knows her options, she is a very intelligent woman. She is just very afraid to make the wrong choice, and she felt that staying home would not allow her to push the reset button, as it were.

I am thinking about IC to help me with my "bad days". I am concerned that I awaken at 3am every day and start right in with the racing thoughts. I have always been a good sleeper.

Last time she contacted me was when I did exactly as you suggest. I didn't contact her at all for a day or maybe two days. I opened up to her quite a bit last night, I think pulling back is a very good idea.

Thanks for your continual support, LN.