My husband wants to reconcile. I use to post under a different name, but H and OW found me.
For the few around here who know my other ID, my H was once voted the worse on this board.
Now he has WILLINGLY agreed to the following: 1. Retrouvaille 2. cancelling his cell and getting back on our joint acct 3. Changing jobs (he works with OW) 4. Breaking his lease
He has been open re: his contact with OW, but I find myself in constant doubt. When he doesn't answer, I ALWAYS expect the worse. He is being very consistent, even when I lose it a little.
We have started to attend church regularly. He has admitted the A, apologized, and taken complete responsibility.
I am trying to decide if I want him to call her, with me present, and tell her he is recommitting to me and that there is absolutely no place for her on ANY level or if we should just change numbers and proceed.
