Good luck to you. My D just happened - the ink is still wet.
However, it is a relief of sorts. I fought the fight for two years - now it is time to move on. I focus on that - the present and a future filled with opportunity. I try not to live in the past any longer.
But is is difficult. I visited my house yesterday - she finally moved out and returned it to me per the D agreement. It was hard, looking at the empty place and remembering the good times. But remembering the good times helps us heal.
Quote:
The woman I married no longer exists.
That is the attitude but one so hard to accept. I don't like to call them aliens b/c that is angry - but the "Invasion of the Body Snatchers" always comes to mind here. And also remember that she cannot hurt you any longer.
So treat the D as your opportunity to start fresh. Improve what you can and accept the rest. You will do well.
