MJ,

Whatever. Just bottle that vigor, market it and move on! If he has any sense at all he is faking it and shoring himself up in anticipation of meeting you.

You are just divine. You know that LD/HD is just a convenient label with no meaning other than what the players assign it. If you are Cemar it is everything. If you are you - who cares???as long as your partner is engaged with you, with sex and with life.

Karen