Do you think it would help if S13 would kinda talk to S10. Are they close like that? I'm thinking this b/c maybe since they're close in age and both males, S10 might feel more comfortable. S10 knows you're hurting as well and doesn't want to hurt your feelings even more. D (7) would tell me that in the beginning too....I can't tell you because you'll cry/get more sad/etc. The FISH program at school is probably NOT confidential to where S10 can't tell you. D tells me what they do in RAINBOWS all the time. She doesn't say what the other kids say, but just that she gets to talk and say things. Maybe S10 just doesn't want to tell you what he's saying? Could you talk to the FISH teacher and see how he's doing in there, if he's talking and opening up?