jmw, oh I learned long ago not to do too much analyzing or reading into things. Something I always try to remember is each of these little interactions is a crumb and not the whole cookie. But you have to wonder at what point do the crumbs start to add up.
Cat03 and FLTC, on guilt I was just thinking out loud more than anything. Wondering can guilt be an ally in the it helps someone see over a wall they have put up. Possibly but the big thing is do they let go of that guilt when they see the good things on the other side of the wall, when they realize they don't need guilt when they can have such positive and good things.
I suspect my musing on guilt aren't spot on. Guilt is a tough thing to get past and can lead to resentment and we all know where that leads!
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
