I do. I think I still owe you a picture...some day I'll get my head back on straight. Somebody drove a truck through my fence when I was in Cali....oh the joys of living on a farm.
Ooh, I just had a thought....rather than putting a profile on match.com, I could just post my pic on here and see if any of the other fellow divorced db'ers would be interested...I'm sure I would meet better quality guys that way :-)
Strictly as a public service, I would be more than happy to lend my services and review your picture and report back to the group.
Hope.... You have got to be kidding..... he left you????
I wish I was kidding, but he walked out the door after 11 years together, but I can confidently say today that XH regrets leaving without a doubt. The trouble was that OW sealed the deal with pregnancy, so we had no choice but to move on with our lives. A few weeks ago a guy told me that I was so beautiful that I should model...crazy.
Hope.... You have got to be kidding..... he left you???? H (Love Dr)
I have to say that these A's are NOT about looks. That's for sure. It's about our S's unhappiness with themselves. In some cases we have S's that get so unhappy with themselves that they think they're not worthy of us. I am NOT by any means trying to put myself up on a pedestal (I'm human and make mistakes too), but it just seems like in so many cases here our S's go for someone as unhappy as they are and less attractive than their current spouse. Look at Hope who is beautiful, Mark & Joie (also very attractive) where we've seen what the OP looks like.....etc. I've met the OW in my sitch and no, I don't think she's attractive. She's not hideous, but she's got a bulbus nose and just not attractive to me. But, I'm not the one that chose her.......H is. H chose a less attractive person who who is as "woe is me and miserable" in her marriage as he thinks he is.
Last edited by SueS; 01/30/0805:13 PM.
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
A few weeks ago a guy told me that I was so beautiful that I should model...crazy.
Hope- What a great compliment! You are a beautiful woman!...sound like inside and out! We all trust our LWB too, so we'll take her word for it that you are exactly what we all think you are.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day