Hope,
I honestly agree with Amy . i do not think he is "out" of the crisis. This is the part wher he sees all his damage and finds it unbearable.

I agree with you , in needing closure and You do need to move forward with yourself.

But i do not think your H is out of MLC... Replay -yes...You are getting answers and that is good for you.

I know how you feel but I think this is good.